It's been an hour since the incident. I now feel a letdown.
I hurt those guys. I hurt them deeply. I don't feel so good about that.
It took something shocking like that to start waking me up, so NO you should not feel bad about the way you handled it. I bet this will start the waking up for those two jws. Maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but sooner or later they will start searching for more information. You planted the seed, there's no turning back for them.